What is 42 Dates?

Why forty two, what is forty two, and where do we start?

In this bi-weekly blog, there will be a few comical encounters, unbelievable engagements, uncharted experiences and one woman’s account of 42 dates.


42 Dates is a universal love letter culminated into 42 unique, different and entertaining dating experiences. A forgotten demographic with a layered and multi-dimensional perspective. Let’s delve into:

·      The scene

·      The attire

·      The meeting

·      The environment

·      The story

From a realistic, comical and unique voice. Travel with me from date to date as I end each post with notes, shout-out’s and questions to deepen the conversation and to gain shared perspective.  Enter your email and click “sign up” to get first read! Please share your thoughts with me; I’d love to hear them.

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Date 15 - The Big Easy

The next day, as I sauntered from one music stage to the live band stage, I run smack dab into him, and he screams, “my date!”

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Date 10 - The Dude

The good thing about me: I understand about myself, I am guided by intuition and discernment.

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Date 08 - Dr Phil’ish

When this man tapped on my tinted window, I immediately thought, “Is he going to ask me for money?”

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Date 07 - The Chef

She was not privy to the undercover flirting that was transpiring before her.

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Date 06 - Man in Black

He reached out to see if I had made it to my international destination, as well as when I returned home…

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Date 05 - Grinder

After much bantering and negotiation, I agreed and promised to dance and stay for the duration of five songs…

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Date 04 - Weird Al

Gentlemen, if you are meeting a lady for the first time, please don't assume that she will be comfortable in close and unescapable quarters with you…

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Date 03 - Marcus Graham

I love myself more than the possibility of him, so I do nothing with my internal emotions and say nothing as I don’t want to come off as an angry or aggressive person…

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Date 02 - Sticky Fingers

I took that philosophy like it was a dose of medicine; what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger. Right?

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